Wednesday 7 August 2013

Muslim Beautiful Girls

Muslim Beautiful Girls Biography

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It is generally found that people celebrate on the birth of a boy and show dissatisfaction when a girl is born. Islam disapproves of this kind of behavior. Children are great gift from Almighty Allah and we should be thankful and rejoice irrespective of the gender of the new-born child. The birth of a daughter is a blessing and the Prophet of Islam (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said that they would be a shield for the parents from Hell. 

It is stated in the Quran Shareef, Surah an-Nahl, Verse 58: “… when news is brought to one of them of the birth of a female child his face darkens, and he is filled with inward grief”. This was the belief of the Kufaar prior to Islam. 

The woman that gives birth to a girl as her first child is indeed fortunate as the first born of the Prophet Muhammad (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) was a girl. 

On the birth of a child, gifts or alms should be distributed among the poor. Nafils should be read instead of having parties, playing music and distributing sweetmeats, which is totally unnecessary. 

When a child is born, he or she should be given Ghusal as soon as possible and the Azaan must be read in the right ear and the Takbeer recited in the left ear. The after-birth (placenta, etc.) of the child should be buried. 

It is also Sunnat that some pious person chews something sweet like dates (Khajoor) and place in the baby’s palate (Thaneek). It is established from the Ahadith that the Sahabas took new-borns to the Prophet Muhammad (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) for Thaneek . 

It is preferable to have a Meelad Shareef or Fateha on the birth of a baby. All other unnecessary customs, which has no basis in Islam, should be completely stopped.
A child should be weaned off breast milk at the age of two. 

When the child is learning to speak, first teach him or her to say the name of Allah and teach the child Kalima Tayyibah at a later stage. 

When making a child sleep, mothers should read Naaths or Qasida instead of singing songs or playing the radio. 

Try to set a good example and practice what you preach as children have a habit of imitating what they see. 

Read your Namaaz in their presence, recite Quran Shareef and take them to the Masjid with you. 

Read stories of good pious people as children love listening to stories and can learn valuable lessons and form good habits from Hadith and such stories. 

When children reach the age of 7 years, they should be ordered to perform Namaaz, learn the five Kalimas, Imaan-e-Mujmal and Imaan-e-Mufassil. 

Send children to Madressa to learn Dua’s, to read the Quran Shareef and other Islamic Books and magazines. 

Children should be taught to keep their body, clothes and surroundings pure and clean. 

They should be given responsibilities as well as certain duties or tasks to perform in the house. 

They must be taught to do their own work and should also be taught to make Salaams when entering the house or when meeting people. They should be taught the importance of respecting their elders. 

Encourage a life of simplicity including simple dressing and eating habits. 

It is advisable that at least one of the children should become Hafiz or an Aalim as it has been stated in a Hadith that three generations of one Hafiz and seven generations of one Aalim will be pardoned. 

Instill good constructive hobbies in them, those that can be means for them to earn a Halaal Rozi (sustenance) at a later stage in their lives. 

According to Islam, children must be educated in religious and worldly affairs. In this connection, there is also a famous Hadith of the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) which says: “The acquisition of knowledge is incumbent on every Muslim man and woman.” But the education of the females should be in accordance with her temperament and the immediate needs of society. She should be educated in such a manner as could make her a good Muslim, wife, mother, educator and an ideal citizen. Girls should be taught handicrafts, cooking, sewing, etc. It is very important that with any career one should gain Islamic knowledge and practice good Islamic way of life and values. 

If a child is not given proper Islamic training and as a result adopts evil habits and commits sins, the sins thereof will be upon the parents.

NIKAH OR WEDDING :

The qualities that one should look for in a marriage partner are piety and God-fearing. 

Neither the boy nor the girl should be forced into a marriage. 

The bride’s mother’s consent is just as important. 

According to the Shari’ah it is necessary that when permission is being sought from the bride for marriage that the name of the bridegroom, his father’s name and the amount of Maher (dowry) be mentioned. Nikah only takes place when the bride accepts this. 

Some excuse should be made for the boy to see the girl without the girl’s knowledge. 

The Quran Shareef states: “The affairs according to the consultation amongst them.” The elders of both parties should have a discussion concerning the forthcoming union so that in the event of a misunderstanding between the couple after marriage, their elders can help in resolving the matter. 

An engagement is not necessary. The purpose of an engagement is to confirm or promise a Nikah, so if in some cases it has to take place, it should be done without extravagance. 

When setting the date for a wedding it is better that it is set on a Monday or Friday since these days are of Barakat. 

The tradition of Haldi (putting Tumeric powder) and of Mehendi (putting Henna powder) is also unnecessary and should be stopped, as this has no basis in our religion. Everything besides the performing of the Nikah itself has no validity in Islam. 

The wedding of Bibi Fathima Zahra (radi Allahu anha) should be used as a guideline. The Prophet Muhammad (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) could have had an elaborate wedding for his dearest daughter but he made it a simple affair. He knew that the Ummah would use this wedding as an example. Therefore, the custom of songs, dancing, mixing of sexes and many other western practices should be stopped as these are all against the teachings of Islam. 

Unnecessary financial expenses should be avoided so that the rich and the poor may have similar weddings. 

It is not necessary to provide a meal during the wedding as this was not done during the wedding of Bibi Fathima Zahra (radi Allahu anha). Yes, it is Sunnat to distribute dates. 

It is preferable to have the Nikah at the Masjid as this is Mustahab. The bride’s residence as a venue for the Nikah is also acceptable. 

A man once came to Hadrat Imaam Mohammed (radi Allahu anhu) and related that he had promised to give his daughter everything in this world as dowry and now he finds this task impossible, as even a king cannot accomplish this. Hadrat Imaam Mohammed (radi Allahu anhu) advised him to give the Quran Shareef in dowry as everything is contained in the Holy Quran. 

It is Sunnat for the bridegroom to have a Walima the day after the wedding. This should be done in accordance with his means. A loan should not be taken to have a Walima. The poor and the needy should be invited to the Walima. It is stated in a Hadith that the most blessed Nikah is the one in which the least expenses are involved and is simple. 

After the marriage has taken place, the couple should give time to adjust and be polite, kind and understanding to each other. A husband should provide as best maintenance as he can and also show love, affection, protection, comfort and happiness. He should encourage his wife to follow the Islamic way of life. He should not speak ill of her parents or relatives and should allow her to visit families occasionally. 

In the same token a wife should also be kind to his relatives especially his parents and treat them with respect. A wife should manage the household affairs wisely. 

The wife is given the right of Maher, which can be claimed from her husband at the time of marriage. The Maher should be set with the consideration of the husband’s financial status and the wife’s living standards, her qualities and her family background. The Maher is a personal property of the wife and nobody can claim a share in it without her consent. Greed for excessive dowry should be avoided. 

In case of any disagreements, a husband should not be hasty in giving Talaaq as in most cases the act is immensely regretted bringing about a lot of pain and misery. In most cases of differences or problems, it is the man that walks out, gets married again and lives a happy life and it is the wife who is left helpless, as the man refuses to give Talaaq. 

Therefore, during Nikah an affidavit should be drawn up by the bridegroom saying that if he goes missing or remarries while still married to his wife, or is cruel, or unfair towards her, or even does not perform his rightful duties towards his wife, etc. then the wife has the right to take Talaaq. This should be done after making necessary affirmation of Nikah. The Qazi (Muslim Judge) should make negotiations from the man’s side and the women must accept by laying her conditions, that in case of so and so, etc. she should have the right to take Talaaq and be free of her husband. Insha-Allah, the husband will not ill-treat his wife and he will be just and fair to her safeguarding her from misery. According to Shari’ah there is no objection to this kind of solution. 

A wife should not be forced to live or to perform any services for her in-laws as Islam offers her the right to choose. If she chooses to do so as a favour to her husband, she will be rewarded.

                                 Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                    Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                     Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                  Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                 Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                   Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                  Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                    Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                  Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                  Muslim Beautiful Girls

                                 Muslim Beautiful Girls


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